These are the sermonic explorations shared on March 5, 2012 at
the Thomas Jefferson Memorial Church - Unitarian Universalist in Charlottesville, Virginia.
the Thomas Jefferson Memorial Church - Unitarian Universalist in Charlottesville, Virginia.
Thomas
Collier: Grace
– the new topic for the month of March. (Eric? What are you doing? Atonement, was hard enough, then Incarnation
in December I had to stretch head and heart on that topic and now???? – Grace!!)
Well, as usual I don’t have a clue what Grace
is. I mean, I understand that the
definition of Grace is, a free or unmerited gift, but that begs the question of
who is the giver (religiously speaking), and why me? There are more worthy and more needy people
than me. And if grace is accidental, a
positive synchronicity then there is no giver, and without a giver, how can it
be considered a gift. So grace, beyond reading the definition of what it is
supposed to mean, I can’t say that grace makes a whole lot of sense to me. The dictionary was not much help, this
time.
Grace – Graceful. Now that makes sense, that I can
understand; fluid, smooth, flawless, beautiful.
That is grace I can hold onto – That is grace I can see
– That is grace I can hope for. I hope
for you, for me, for us all – Life lived gracefully. A Smooth, flawless, beautifully lived life.
That would be wonderful if it weren’t so incredibly
unrealistic. Sometimes life is graceful
and sometimes life is a bellyflop.
I struggled to find an image for this
grace-less-ness and the best I could come up with is an old Calvin and Hobbs
cartoon where Calvin is at the top of Mayhem Mountain and Hobbs is questioning
the rationale behind pushing off. They,
of course, GO and Mayhem ensues. They
fly (uncontrolled) through the air, crash into just about everything they could
crash into and then end up at the bottom, bumped, bruised, scratched … and
triumphant!
Sure, there are times when life is grace, beautiful
moments; then there are times when Grace, the dancer, falls flat on her tukus
and everyone stifles a laugh because they know its not socially appropriate to
laugh especially when the person sitting next to you is genuinely concerned for
Grace. Yes, I too am concerned for Grace
… but Grace just fell on her butt and that was funny.
A life well lived comes with a fair share of grace-less
crash-bang, fall-down, bruises and scars kind of moments. The kind of moments that really make stories,
that make stories great. The kind of moments that make us laugh. We will wait through the entire series of
credits to get to the outtakes – the crashes, the bangs, the epic failures of
the movie. And sometimes the outtakes
are more entertaining than the movie. I
am not speaking metaphorically, so don’t go home and ponder that as a life
lesson.
Look, its OK
to laugh when another person has an epic crash because they are part of life,
the person and the crashes. I have done
a lot of whitewater kayaking and we, the whitewater community, have gotten over
the idea that laughing at someone adds insult to injury. We laugh because the crash was funny, not
because we are laughing at you (plus we have seen a lot of crashes an we know
you are going to be OK).
There have been times when I was laughing
hysterically and offering a hand for support. There have been many times when I was on the
receiving end of someone laughing hysterically and offering a hand for
support. Actually the only time that
laughter adds insult to injury is when someone is taking themselves a bit to
seriously and in all honesty, we ALL crash so don’t take yourself too
seriously. Plus you are killing the
potential mirth of the situation.
In our daily lives, we are all usually in a crash or
a state of Grace. Usually. There are those extreme times – Joyful times,
which are more than just graceful, and Tragic times, where laughter can not
penetrate. But the most of our time is spent in a crash or a beautiful flowing
state of Grace.
When life in is in the midst of a crash – when grace
is gone – don’t forget to laugh. The
crash you are in may be physical, emotional or spiritual – don’t forget to
laugh. You may be on your knees alone or
with a trusted companion - weeping OR pacing back and forth screaming (once
again alone or with a trusted companion because its not Ok to do that in public). Don’t forget to laugh. It could be huge, “I have to write this down,
this is a GREAT story” kind of hysterical laughter or it could be a small “I
can NOT BELIEVE how messed up this is”
kind of laughter. Don’t forget to
laugh.
There is as much if not more God in laughter as
there is in quiet solemnity.
There is as much if not more Spirit in laughter as
there is in quiet contemplation.
I really wish a beautiful, fluid Graceful life, for
you, for us all.
but when Not-So-Graceful happens
I wish for us all Laughter.
Erik
Wikstrom: Our Universalist
ancestors told the world, and tell us still, that there are no limits to the
love of God. Now we Unitarian
Universalists, today, may want to have some freedom to express that phrase “the
love of God” in different ways. For some
of us those words themselves are too limiting, they are too inextricably linked
to images of a paternalistic Santa in the Sky who doles out goodies to the good
and cosmic coal to everyone else. (As if
even God could make such a clear distinction between those two!)
Some people don’t like “theistic
language,” or what our recent UUA President Bill Sinkford liked to call “the
language of reverence.” That’s okay,
really. We don’t need it. In the Christian scriptures Jesus is
remembered as saying that “God causes it to rain on the just and the unjust
alike,” a passage often quoted by those long-ago Universalists. We could just as easily, and just as
accurately, say simply that it rains on the just and the unjust. The sun shines on good people and bad people
equally. Green plants soak up carbon
dioxide and exude fresh oxygen whether we deserve it or not.
And now we’ve come to a part of the
concept of “Grace” that often causes fits for folks like us. If grace is, as many would define it, an
“unmerited” or “undeserved” gift or blessing, then many of us would draw the
line right there. What do I mean by
saying “undeserved”? It’s not like we’re
still stuck in that “sinner” stuff, those old teachings that seemed to
emphasize how “unworthy” we are.
Well no . . . we’re not. And that’s part of the point. But let me offer an illustration.
When I was candidating for this position
the Search Committee looked at a lot of other highly qualified folks. I had to demonstrate – prove to them and then
to you – that I was up to the . . . opportunity . . . of pastoring this
people. And I think it’s fair to say
that I earned my place in this
pulpit; that I deserve to be here,
ministering with all of you, co-creating this beloved community we call TJMC.
But do I – could I – deserve what it
feels like when Scott plays? Is there
some way that I could earn the energy
in this room when we’re weaving worship together? The thrill that runs up my spine when I see
what’s going on in our RE program, what could possibly make me worthy of that feeling?
Nothing.
Absolutely nothing. These things
are completely unmerited, undeserved . . . they’re grace.
As is the sunset that reminds you that
life is worth living at the end of that
day when you’ve not been so sure. As is
the look in your child’s eye when they look at you like you know everything and
can do everything and . . . are . . . everything to them. Grace.
Nothing but grace.
So our Unitarian Universalist ancestors
told the world, and tell us still, that there are no limits to grace; that it
falls on the just and the unjust; that it shines on good people and bad people
equally; that no matter what we may know ourselves to be, it’s there – all
around us (and within us too!) – just ready for the taking. They preached that the question of whether or
not you “deserved” it, or were “worthy” of it, isn’t really the right
question. Of course you don’t; there’s
no way that you could. So stop worrying
about that.
The real question doesn’t have to do
with “worthiness” or “unworthiness” but, instead, willingness. Because grace is all around us, like the air
we breathe, but we have a choice about whether or not we acknowledge it;
whether or not we accept it.
So there’s the question – the real
question imbedded in the concept of grace – are you willing to accept it? Are you willing to open yourself to it? Trust it?
Live your life as though it were true?
Albert Einstein is reported to have
said, “"The most important question you'll ever ask is
whether the Universe is a friendly place." It’s possible that he didn’t say this, but
it’s an awfully good question nonetheless.
And the answer, I’m afraid is not quantifiable. There is no definitive conclusion to be drawn
by looking at the available data, because the available data unfortunately
supports both hypotheses. So we have to
make a choice – you and I have to make a choice – with each and every day we’re
above ground, with each and every breath we draw in each and every
moment-by-moment encounter, we have to decide if we’re going to live in a
friendly Universe or an unfriendly one.
We have to choose whether we’re
going to see the glass as half full or half empty because the objective reality
is that it is both at the same time, yet it matters mightily which perspective
we emphasize. “It matters what we
believe,” Sophia Lyon Fahs said. A
fuller rendering of her poem can be found in the back of our hymnal, but she
said:
Some beliefs are like walled gardens.
. .
Other beliefs are expansive and lead
the way into wider and deeper sympathies.
Some beliefs are like shadows.. . .
Other beliefs are like sunshine. . . .
Some beliefs are divisive. . . .
Other beliefs are bonds in
a world community. . . .
Some beliefs are like blinders. . . .
Other beliefs are like gateways opening wide vistas
for exploration.
Some beliefs weaken a person's selfhood. . .
Other beliefs nurture self-confidence and ignite
the feeling of personal worth.
Some beliefs are rigid, like the body of death,
impotent in a changing world.
Other beliefs are pliable, like the young sapling,
ever growing with the upward thrust of life.
It matters what we believe. It matters how we see that glass. It matters what we think of the
Universe. And it is up to us to choose.
Buddhists teach us that even though we
are breathing all the time we are hardly ever aware of – really, fully, deeply
aware of and awake to –something as simple as our breathing. Yet if we wake up – when we become aware –
even something as simple as our breathing is recognized as being miraculous. Awake or asleep – it’s fundamentally a
choice. A choice each of us has the
power to make. Right now.
And right now again.
Each of us can choose to breathe the
air, and feel the sun on our backs, and let the rain drench us to the skin –
there are no limits to the love of God.
There are no limits to grace.
Unless we put them there.
That’s really the message I have to
share this morning. The sun is always
shining, exuding its energy indiscriminately, lavishing its life-giving power
without condition. Unless we create smog
and pollution to block it out. (And, of
course, even so its energy gets through . . . we just make it harder for us to
see it.) The rain falls, and even our
going inside does not stop its fall – we just prevent it from getting to
us. But it’s there. And when it transforms into water vapor and
enters the air it lands on even those of us who’ve tried to be safe from its
touch . . . we just don’t know it
In the coming weeks we’ll explore this
idea of “grace” from several angles.
This morning I leave these fourteen words for each of us to ponder:
There
is no limit to grace. Do you have the
will to accept it?
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